Promise me, don't just go straight for the G-spot from the beginning.
"Why can't I find the G-spot?"
"If the G-spot is a fold, then what are those little balls I'm touching?"
"I thought the G-spot was supposed to feel amazing? Why does she say it's uncomfortable or feels nothing at all?"
Why so many questions?
It's all because your understanding of the G-spot has been wrong from the beginning!
Common Misconception 01: Directing Straight to the G-spot
"I want my partner to orgasm, so every time I enter, I start looking for the G-spot. If I can't find it or my partner doesn't feel anything, I feel really disappointed and keep searching. But even when I find the G-spot, my partner doesn't feel much or may even feel uncomfortable."
Some people mistakenly believe that finding the G-spot will automatically lead to their partner orgasming. They eagerly search for this so-called "pleasure point" every time they have sex. However, even if the G-spot is located, it may not necessarily bring pleasure to the partner, and may even cause discomfort.
But sex is like a captivating novel or a compelling movie. From the plot development to the climax, and then the soothing aftermath, the entire process is filled with nuances and emotional exchanges. Sex is not just a task to accomplish but a deeply meaningful experience.
Therefore, we shouldn't solely focus on finding the G-spot. Sex is a holistic experience, including kissing, foreplay, caressing, oral sex, vaginal intercourse, and more. The pleasure from the G-spot is not the only focus of sex; it's more about paying attention to the partner's feelings and emotional connection.
Don't be lazy; think of other ways to make her happy.
Common Misconception 02: Stimulating the G-spot Every Time
Some people, after mastering the technique of G-spot orgasms, especially when they find they can make their partner orgasm in just a few minutes, relentlessly target the G-spot every time. They pursue not the complete experience of sex but only the pleasure of reaching orgasm. This one-track pursuit of the G-spot makes sex dull and loses its original charm and joy.
I want to remind everyone that women's sexual experiences are not just about reaching orgasm. They enjoy the process of sex more, including emotional exchanges and physical intimacy. If every time you only stimulate the G-spot, it will make the partner lose anticipation and excitement because the process becomes too mechanized and boring.
Sex is a rich and colorful experience that should not be confined to just stimulating the G-spot. We should explore more pleasures, try different methods and techniques to make sex more fulfilling and enjoyable.
Besides the G-spot, there are many other ways to bring pleasure and satisfaction. Don't focus only on one point; be open-minded and explore more possibilities in sex.
Common Misconception 03: The G-spot Isn't Just a Spot?
For those who have entered the female vagina, you will definitely feel some folds on the side near the abdomen. This shows that the female vagina is not the smooth canal we imagine. The sensation varies in each direction, and the pleasure it brings to the woman also differs.
It's worth noting that some people may be more sensitive to stimulation on one side, while others may be more sensitive to the other side. At the same time, some people may not be sensitive at first, but gradually become more sensitive over time.
However, one thing is for sure: most people don't like friction stimulation on the side near the anus of the vagina (if you don't want to make the partner feel uncomfortable, don't risk trying it).
Speaking of the G-spot, it's not a specific point but an area. It's about the size of a dime, and can be covered by about two fingers. The G-spot area is located in the folds of the anterior wall of the vagina, about three centimeters from the vaginal opening, and the length of two finger joints can touch it.
Common Misconception 04: Isn't the G-spot Pleasurable with Just One Touch?
Many people mistakenly believe that the G-spot is like a switch, and once touched, pleasure will immediately be felt. But that's not the case.
When you're excited and eager, the sensitivity of the G-spot will be activated, and only then will you feel the sensation when it is stimulated. As the level of excitement increases, the G-spot area will become more engorged and swollen, sometimes even feeling as hard as rubber. For some people, gently brushing a finger is enough to bring intense pleasure, while for others, they prefer stronger, heavier movements.
If you try to make your partner orgasm by stimulating the G-spot without any foreplay, then what's the difference between that and a straight guy's fantasy of making a woman orgasm with a tampon? Sex should be an emotional and pleasurable experience, not just a mechanical action. So, in the process of sex, don't ignore foreplay and emotional communication, making sex more rich and fulfilling.
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