We all know how important sex is in a relationship; it's the sweetener in a couple's romantic life.
Sexual intimacy profoundly impacts relationships, fostering closeness and trust. Understanding its significance can enhance emotional connections and promote a fulfilling partnership.
But... the truth is, men's sex drive might be different from what you imagine. Here are three things men want women to know:
1.Men don't think about sex drive all the time.
For a 20-year-old, it might seem like sex is constantly on his mind, with thoughts of trying new sex positions, sex toys, and sex lingerie. At this age, sex is indeed a significant focus, and he's highly interested in every aspect of it.
However, for an adult married man, especially those over 35, the focus shifts from sex toys and sex lingerie to deeper levels of marital connection, not just fulfilling sexual needs.
Sometimes, a man simply needs a hug, a kiss, or a whisper of intimacy. If it's solely about intercourse, a long-married man might even find ways to avoid it.
2.Love is the Catalyst for Male Sexual Pleasure
According to a survey, 62% of men find loveless sex monotonous. Simply having sexual activity doesn’t maintain their sexual excitement. They seek deeper fulfillment.
"Having my beloved wife beside me gives me a sense of calm and warmth," says Joe, married for six years. "Every time I'm in bed with my wife, who truly understands me, I feel joy, even without erotic lingerie. It's entirely different from mere intercourse."
Men prefer wives who invest emotionally in sex drive, which enhances their physical and emotional pleasure. So, it's not just about adult toys and erotic lingerie; love is essential too.
3.Men Need Foreplay Too
Jason, a 32-year-old engineer married for three years, says, "I wish my wife knew that I don’t always want to be the initiator in sex. It's not about lack of desire or her attractiveness."
There's a misconception, fueled by literature, movies, and TV, that men always lead in sex. When reality doesn't match this, women may doubt their allure, striving for more sexiness, while men may question their abilities, turning to adult toys or medications.
Instead of jumping to conclusions, consider that disharmony in your sex life might not be about attractiveness.
Men, like women, need foreplay.
Louis, married for eight years, says, "Sometimes, I'm at a loss. My wife thinks I can be aroused without any affection. I crave the feeling of being loved—occasional kisses, caresses, and touches captivate me far more than any adult toys, but I don't know how to tell her."
Conclusion
Men often wish women understood their feelings about sex, but for various reasons, they are often too shy to speak up.
Since we all know how important sex is in a relationship, why not share this article with her and let her know?
Honey, do you know what to do now?
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